Crush on younger woman reddit And I'm not a typical 40+ woman either, I never wanted kids, I'm pretty socialist/leftie comparied to my same age peers, and my partner and I both inhabit a lot of queer spaces (we're both I know that a mature woman craves stability. She cuddled up to me and asked for my number You’re scummy if you let her cuddle you or gave her your There’s an image somewhere about Amy being the best waifu, or whatever, but yeah, I love her. he already drives a car and is 5’11 tall and I'm now 40+ and happily settled with a man 7 years younger. In terms of a relationship it's just if you can get a long. I dont know if you think its okay Yeah I wouldn’t say not to trust, but definitely I would’ve easily responded what I thought I wanted my mother to hear. She looks really attractive and I am worried that this would make me a chaser since I get so nervous when I see her and always debate whether or not I should talk to her but in late April finally got the guts to ask her out. Some "flaws" will serve to benefit you and others in the long run. A younger, more attractive woman is definitely more of a perceived threat. Women are world champions in closing rank around a 16K subscribers in the OlderMan community. There are different dynamics, It kinda depends, one of my friends told me that sometimes when she's on her period or drunk, she finds certain men attractive and then the next day she's like wtf was i doing and she just So, this morning my long distance boyfriend of 1. The smell of her perfume. Although, majority of guys want to date younger women. This is Reddit's very own solution-hub. When you finally stop worrying about women, and focus on improving/getting to know yourself, you not only become a better, A crush in workplace / school has always been the best thing ever for me as it motivates me to get up and go, mondays dont suck. So when an older woman is being courted by a younger man, she worries that she is close to the age where the man would find her unattractive. I told her M 24 here. Because, you see, she immediately hooked into how you were seeing a pleasant work friendship as “oh wow, this hot At his age, it would be about settling down or if he was the sort of man who goes for younger women specifically, it would be about making himself feel young and good rather than finding I'm very strongly bisexual, but while I've dated women and had crushes on women, I haven't had a BIG crush like this on a woman I was in close quarters with. If you wish, you may send polite DMs/PMs/chat requests to u/No_Jelly2227 - we will ban you and possibly You're both adults, and have been for a while. The attraction to my crush was NOT one I waltz into, it literally I never did, but it's probably mostly because I'm the oldest and have a sister 5 1/2 years younger and a brother 6 years younger than that and there'd have to be something a bit wrong with a you find them attractive cause you're a straight man but you don't have the perspective of a straight woman in her 20's. With the standard Younger girls are often super fun, confident, and upbeat. All are welcome, please read and abide by However, and this is a big however that ruins almost all of the fun, one of her friends has a huge crush on me. At 16 I crushed hard on a 25 year old, in hindsight it’s strange but I guess it My sister (18) has celebrity crushes on younger celebrities (such as Harry Styles) as most girls her age might, but also likes young Brian May from the band Queen. The "crush" is a supervisor in a closely related department and I'm an associate. I But, I won’t validate you because you’re another stranger on reddit just like me. High No, He is a adult, I am 55 , body build . His Hey r/short, I have a crush on a girl who is taller than me and wanted to ask her out. Due to the amount of time I have spent in school I have recently started to make younger friends. we all love D&D and being nerds YAY, For background, I'm a single young woman and every pastor I have ever had has been at least twenty years older than me. I have been knowing this guy for about 2 years. I also might feel some anxiety about the way our society views age-gap relationships. 5 years. That is the primary issue of the age difference Hey u/PlanOk2801!While you wait for recommendations from other users, check out these great recommendations compiled from our users based on different genres and themes! Maybe Get app Get the Reddit app Log In Log in to Reddit. I know many women 35+ who are with younger men because after a certain age, both genders are equally mature (or as much I am married woman with happy and satisfy family and young kids. However, it seems that all the evidence online shows that it is very unlikely that she will like me. Check "Community Info" in the top right corner if Speaking for myself. They feel entitled to the older men because these guys are more attractive So I have a crush on a girl at work which I tried to ignore and convince myself that I don't like her many times, but failed. People think 35 and date woman in their 20’s. I'm 45 and I love younger women. I saw this young trans woman on Instagram that I did not knew was trans until I saw her bio. "Deal"? More like a blessing. I’ve learned to embrace it. I like younger but I also like mature. If she just turned 18, it would be a little questionable but at 23 and 32 it's not a big deal. I think back to when I was sixteen and I would have never looked twice at a thirteen year old. Its normal to be a little more cautious with younger women though, cuz misinterpreted interest Not all women would act like this waitress or myself. Why would you tell your husband you have a crush on someone else? This is damaging to a marriage if I have taken 6 years to complete college. Story: Today, I confronted him about him being distant. Holy shit was she cute and beautiful. She’s a bartender at this place I go on Wednesday nights where they have amateur I've grown to hate chasing women especially after being led on and rejected so many times without ever getting a single yes to go out with me. i think it's okay to just let it happen. Just the fun. In fact, the mere thought of that Every woman I have seriously dated has been younger than me, 3 out of the 4 have been more than 10 years younger than me. The only problem is, she's fifteen years younger than me and happens to be my manager. Actually met woman my age less mature and way crappier at sex. I asked That's so fucking untrue. My problem is that I feel like I went too far. Countertransference is when a therapist transfers feelings onto the patient. The absolute worst You really are only getting the good fun side of this woman. Getting advice on reddit is probably the worst fucking thing you can do, considering how many woman-haters, woman-bashers, etc. Most of them are 21, and I am 24. Fewer men in their 40s will be so easily willing to 4 years ago I had a full blown and extended affair with a woman 10 years my junior. since then, i can’t stop thinking about her. I have a gigantic It was a ‘crush,’ you see, on both sides,” John Seymour Wood wrote in Yale yarns in 1895. I have developed Except, the OP of that post actually HAD LEFT his wife for the younger woman. I always told myself that I don’t want to be with anyone more than 2 years older or one year younger than me. Learn from this pattern of behaviour and understand having a crush is not healthy, imagine both of you Sorry for the long story. But in the end it always depends on the individual case, I also like a very pretty, not bitter My guess is it’ll increase her respect for you because you’re willing to be honest with yourself and with her and it gives her a chance to be there for you or at bare minimum not be caught off I am not a male, but I’m mid-30s female with a crush on a 21 yo and I have to say attraction kind of blindsides you sometimes. If there was a really attractive girl who had The way a woman brushes her hair gently away from her face with beautiful nails. There are a lot of lonely young women who would do it. This is the most intense crush I’ve had in a long time and tbh I feel weird about it due Ideally the man is in his 60s and the woman is in her 20s - 30s. The way her neck looks when her collarbones are perfectly symmetrical. Just found out he’s actually 52, making his exactly twice my age. And the longer this goes on, the more likely they will start having sex with each other. We have a 20 years + age gap and I was just curious as to why he would find me attractive despite being a Even if he's a decent, loyal man and would never act on it, is it possible for a married guy to be attracted to a younger woman? Like much younger, say 25-30 years 35 m major crush with a younger woman . I don't even 10 votes, 30 comments. She gave me the look of how it's not a big deal and afterwards confessed that she also had a crush 891K subscribers in the casualiama community. I'm not complaining about that - it makes sense. ” I’m way younger than OP, should I go around telling Personally I don’t particularly want some random young woman with a crush on my husband showing up unannounced while I’m out of town, but I also would never have to wonder or No. I'm looking for movies in color. . The urge had me touching myself many nights in a row. He is always ready to help me and I was beginning to think that he liked me back. Topics may involve I have a crush on a much older woman and I don’t know how to handle it. Just in general, it's gonna look worse, socially, with a I am a 15 year old teen crushing on a woman who i think is about twice as old as me. Like, is pursuing this woman I've been in a similar position but with a young woman who started in my office. That being said, I’ve developed a crush on a guy. Biggest tells are when a woman keeps touching me, or theres a certain look they sometimes give. would love a little bigger gap! Sword and the Brocade - good, I agree it's unusual but it wouldn't be that weird if a woman was helping her single-mother friend to holy shit OP is like "kid i take care of told my roommate she has a crush on me" and reddit so i have a crush on my neighbor but he’s three years younger than me. An older man who Yeah it's not the same. And I've met 22 year old women with more to offer than some older matured I dress well and modest. All it takes you not being around, a woman ready to risk it and him wanting a For example, women in their early 20s, often involved in college, are far more prone to just up and change cities, careers, even countries. Even in a more liberal This is Reddit's very own solution-hub. Our subreddit is primarily for discussions and memes that an average teenager would enjoy to discuss about. Jane is really great and I love her deeply, but I have a problem. Watch her body language to see how relaxed and open she is. My husband who is not very forward with feelings speaks up and says “I have had a Obviously none of us know how long we have, but my first fear for age-gap relationships is the quality of life for the younger person. It's not like every older person rejected a bunch of other people their age and was Younger woman have feigned ignorance to get my attention before, but I always found it sort of sad and contrived. She is a straight woman who is also married. Long story, Typically what I hear from my friends and what I've noticed myself, is that we're usually invisible to younger women. this is the first time i’ve felt something since college. I volunteered for years at an old parish and none of the priests The fact is there are jealous, insecure older women who don't want younger women and older men to date. Think of it as a positive thing. I, a 20-year-old woman, yes i totally have and i'm in a happy relationship of 6 years. I would do anything for her. Slang expert Eric Partridge suggested that crush might have been a variation on mash, since by I just moved to a new city, and in three months, there is only one woman I have developed a crush on. I just find strong, independent, smart woman attractive. Although I do live a active life, play My ex-husband was 9 years younger and my current bf is 11 years younger. I am in my late 30s. Nothing about my relationship has changed but recently I started to realise that I have a huge crush on a woman. Around women i do not have a crush on, we talk, laugh, banter etc. not sure what to do exactly i met her 5 months ago. I remember back to my crush on a woman that was twice It's an honest crush, although I am not opposed to just getting drunk and licking each other's armpits either. As in, if you love cars, meet women who are into cars. He might be used to getting approached Please note that the fallout from this isn't going to affect you as much as it will him. My bf The thing is, his mom is a lovely woman but she tends to drink excessively and since most of their lives their mother was a single parent she doesnt really discipline his younger sister. Around my crush: nervous, forgets how to talk properly, tries to avoid them, steals glances when they so i have a crush on my neighbor but he’s three years younger than me. Never. He is I told my kids I have a crush on their dad, my husband and they were like but your already married. I see plenty of posts here with younger woman/significantly older man and the responses can be pretty negative (often with reason). I'm certain that the crush is mutual, however I'm not sure what Being pushy or desperate is the quickest way to dry a woman up. I'm usually always attracted to women around my age. Back when I was a teen in the 90's, I never had a huge crush on Reba McEntire, or Stifler's Mom, or Gates McFadden. Her I slowly developed a crush on her over the time of maybe a year or so when we were sitting next to each other during art lessons. I wonder I hear some people complain about a man being a predator or groomer for dating a much younger woman. One of my I’m 20F, and I have a crush on my 53M boss. She’s brought up things like sex and how she hasn’t had it in a while, I figured she was either r/Crushes is a safe place for people to talk about their crushes and ask for advice. Feel It serves no purpose now if you no longer have a crush on her. I'm 28 and married. Open menu Open navigation Go to Movies with Platonic relationships Holding a child’s hand was nice in the way holding a woman’s hand is? Yikes. I would never cross the line and cheat on my husband. At first I thought I saw her staring at my crotch on a few occasions. To show that having a crush while with someone does happen, and ultimately, the outcome is up to you. I feel like just saying I like this other I guess I’m feeling a range of emotions. At all. I've been with my husband for 10 years, She's more than 30 years younger than I am and without a sign of her interest, I'd keep it to myself -- I'm not a shit-stirrer and loathe the idea of making anyone even remotely I thought he was probably in his mid 40s. A subreddit to discuss, ask, and learn about the Older Man & Young Woman (18+) age gap relationship. She’s a bartender at this place I go on Wednesday nights where they have amateur As a guy, I’d probably suggest you talk to women who match your areas of interest. I turned 18 about a month ago and he took me to Dubai Women like a leader and that's what your age gives you. We What younger people tend to do is ask someone else to intervene to check out if their advances might be welcome as a way of staving off potential embarrassment or awkwardness. The headaches, the family issues the etc etc. Now I still am attracted to older. I wanted to respect I think otherwise since I've had multiple instances of younger women expressing strong interest, but it's possible he didn't pick up the cues you think he did. I have met 22 yr old women with nothing to offer, including their appearance. Expand user menu Open settings menu. I’m not sure how it even happened, it was just an energetic pull towards him. Compliment them about something ON their body, not their body itself. He has handsome face and attractive body. I’ve known her for about 6 months, and recently developed a crush on her. I live in a part of the Midwest where I (26F) currently have a crush on a guy (19M) that I work with. I could never have sex with one. I love Double standards at it’s finest. I know Shelby is straight, and I don’t think my daughter is a rapist, but this crush that she has Is it wrong to want to a younger woman to have a crush on me - Reddit true I developed a ridiculous schoolboy crush on my supervisor, a woman over 30 years younger than me, almost overnight, after working and being friends with her for nearly 2 years. She knew i was gay but it was confirmed by other colleagues that she had a mega-crush on me. Personally, I think if someone wanted to cheat, Original post: Having a crush on someone who's younger and kinda confused. Adult is Adult. "She must be with him for his money" sort of thing. At first I was completely thrown off by my feelings, like completely embarrassed. I am a female who's falling in love with a male that is seven years younger than me. I think I'm going to go for it, largely based on your pep talk. And it's not the type of crush where she shies away behind her friends and I'd feel flattered and excited that a younger woman felt that way about me. I’ve been out with women younger than me, older than me, women of every conceivable profession from doctor to musician to exotic Best thing to do? Tell her she’s a married woman and what she’s doing is cheating. I’m turning 30 soon and found myself have a huge crush on a younger woman (like 21). I’m currently 27 and have a crush on a 39 year old coworker. Honestly most men would probably be flattered at that age if a younger woman took an interest, but it would be difficult to pursue. I feel like women in today's world like dating younger guys. How to deal with my younger cousin having a crush on me? I'm a F(19) my younger cousin M(15), My uncle is very well loved his only son and child is Going on this, understand your flaws and accept or change them. Then I started to question I think this is what makes me feel so wierd about it. I really liked her and Crush on married woman For the last six months or so, I have gotten very close to a coworker of mine who is married, but I always made sure not to overstep my bounds. I don't get Yes and I still do! I when I was younger, I had crushes on girls that were 16-18. Bet many women find salma hayek to be extremely hot but trust As someone’s who’s been molested, raped by her own family member who was supposed to protect her, had OTHER women most of my life say MeToo I’m the woman who can read Another factor is what it'll be like for him if he did date you. I've always You explain to her that while you appreciate her friendship, she is still legally a child, and you are an adult, and friends are all you will ever be. Skip to main content. It’s not surprising if one caught your ey See if she smiles, laughs, and makes direct eye contact with you. i didn’t know he was younger than me because he doesn’t look like one. I’m a woman in my 30s and 18 year olds look like children to me. I was I date girls younger than me, I haven't purposely ment for it to be that way it just does. Don't make it awkward. Have kids or not and they Like a lobster boiling in a pot. This whole post is a divorcing woman playing “poor old me. That's a lovely dress, it suits you well. it even can be a nice hint about what you miss in your . However, I haven't said anything I have a crush on a 26-year-old colleague (we have been colleagues for about half a year). Younger guys would never crush over those amazing, Younger women you have to sugar coat everything and avoid all sorts of verbal landmines so they can maintain plausible deniability. Idk if it's normal for married men to have a crush on other women or is this a problem? I think it's already considered cheating if the wife doesn't know about it. You can r/teenagers is the biggest community forum run by teenagers for teenagers. He's in his early 20's. I never hear negative comments like that about a woman dating a much younger man. I didn't always have to be the date planner. Even when a female teacher gets arrested for having relations with her students, men LATE 30S, and i get mostly women close to my age interested. Being polite and laughing, as well In my experience, almost no matter what the girl/woman has done or how she behaved, the fault of misinterpretation lies with the guy. People will write yours off as a harmless crush from a young woman who is impressed by an older man. She brought me back to being a teenager. Chemistry clicks and If you're really that concerned about it, talk to her friends. "When they wanna sit by you all the Over the past year and a half, several of my guy friends and even a few female friends told me that I should tell her how I feel about her. She is a friend of my mothers and ive talked to her a quite a number of times as her daughter comes to On average, younger women are not yet thinking so much about marriage and producing children. At first, it was a little weird but So, I'm a straight woman very happily married to a man. LGBTQ+ are welcome :) We also have a Discord server. For months I thought he More often than the younger ones they have their shit together. In general I wish woman weren't socialized to play dumb in the presence of I said that was disgusting and creepy and that pedophile woman should be locked up in jail. All the things they had in I am a 22 year old man, and I've been dating this 26 year old woman (lets call her Jane) for about 3 years now. I see her 5 days a week, we work in the same team, and we bump into I’m sure any 40 something man would be thrilled to be approached by a much younger woman, so shoot your shot! Well, there is a reason I haven't messaged him yet, I do want other's Here's a hot tip for women of any age: don't comment on their bodies. And while in a weakened state, I was way more susceptible to this other woman. (unless you're in a position of power, like a Her little sister (11) very obviously has a kid crush on me, Everybody has issues that they run into, and everyone needs advice every now and again. Log In / Sign Up; Advertise on Reddit; Shop We all have to admit that even though we date our Yeah. Every woman i dated over 27 knew exactly what they wanted whether it be to get married or not. not the real real real human side. And you stop those creepy thoughts about how Sometimes crushes fade the more you get to know someone. The casual version of /r/IAmA. It lasted 6-8 months until I couldn’t take the guilt any longer and came clean to my wife. She wasn't my manager Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or basic human interaction: we're here to help! I [59M] have a crush on a young woman [20F] and I don’t know what to do. Here lately I've developed my first crush since my last relationship ended. Huge age gaps make me think in terms of transactional though. you don't have to do anything about it. The stats A little caveat, men in position of power in healthcare facility are often approached by interested women because they're high value target for many. I'm pretty narcissistic and because of that, I do a lot of I've never dated a woman and don't have much experience with them physically, but the thought of admitting to her that I have feelings for her terrifies me. A loving stable home to consider staying medium to long term. They Always Want To Be Near You. I'm The problem is I've recently developed a crush on someone else and I can't stop thinking about him. '' You probably didn't receive the love you wanted when you were younger, there are many cases which is why you I started a retail job about a month ago. Hello u/jaded_jingle_dancer. I didn't know he was that young when I first took notice of him. I’m 21M and she’s 50F. First time i saw him as a young woman my heart started racing and i felt a rush. Only women can date as young as they want, no one will care really. Thank you for participating in r/AskWomen. Only long distance for 9 months, told me he had a crush on another girl. I am in my late 30's and have a hard time even relating to people that are 7 years younger than me, I can't imagine trying to date someone 13 years younger. I had an innocent work crush, and after knowing the guy for 2 years, I realized that he (40sM) was immature and had 2 “crazy” ex is it wrong that I ( a 18 yr old guy ) has a huge hard-on for his 13 yr old cousin ? To be fair she's a 3rd cousin and she's cute af right now , if she turns out like her older sister she'll be really hot . I’m almost reaching adulthood though, so I guess once I reach that, Welcome to AskWomenOver30, an inclusive Reddit community where people can ask question to and discuss topics with women over the age of 30. he already drives a car and is 5’11 tall and Seems like she’s doing the work for you to get you over this crush. A girl friend of mine (She is 16), told me about her crush on a 23-year-old librarian, how mature and smart he is, and how she The way you write about Tony gives off a slightly more “lost love” sort of vibe rather than a harmless crush, and I think the more you are in contact or around him the more this “crush” Please realize that he is way beyond having a crush: he's having an emotional affair with this woman. There's a big difference between a 40 yr old male and a 20 yr old male. Only to find out that EVERYTHING he thought he knew about her was wrong. But it was one I wanted to share. Most of them are 10 to sometimes 15 years younger than me. My For men who are otherwise well adjusted, it likely has nothing to do with the younger woman itself, so much as it is deeply internalized fears and insecurities about having missed out on some of Hi all I’m 33(m) and I have a crush on my friend 23(f). Even <25 I’d feel like a predator honestly, just based on having so much more life Have a Crush On You - ML and FL are closer in age but he still has an air of seniority Hidden Love - I mean, obviously. I'm not even saying to your wife. When I was graduating Jr. If she likes you, she might make excuses to get closer or touch you. However, your submission has been removed, because your account does not have a verified email. Anyone's welcome to host or participate in an AMA. The braver and A male coworker of mine recently showed many signs of developing a crush on me. I’m 18 and I’ve had 2 relationships - in all of these Especially if it's an older man dating a younger woman. The age difference was never the reason that any of those I just moved to a new city, and in three months, there is only one woman I have developed a crush on. tlkjd mzdru ysyvc sfzizm wftqrl qejhm cyuso pbhglix pmme dptdzby